Stemme means: The term stud is derived from the French words femme and stud to refer to a girl who’s boyish, but very feminine. While sexes are often more feminine than their stud counterparts, sexes tend to be more sexy than their femme counterparts. However, the term “stemme” may refer to how sensitive and emotional a lesbian is compared with how she chooses to dress. Stemme is included in the androgyny concept, as well as stud, futch, a woman who’s a little butch butch or soft butch. In terms of femininity: FemmeStemmeFutchSoft Butch Stud. (in Community Dictionary, added by Ayden Gray)