reverse double dutch rudder means: REVERSE Double Dutch Rudder: Two men face each other with their right hands around their penis. Next, they place their left elbow on their friend’s elbow and then move their right elbow with their left. This causes the friend to masturbate. It is a little less homosexual than the double Dutch rudder, but it’s still worth the effort if it can be perfected. (in Community Dictionary, added by Erick Liu)