Understanding Flandering
Flandering is a term often used to describe someone who engages in casual or illicit sexual relationships outside of their committed partnership. This behavior can be detrimental to relationships and can have damaging effects on individuals involved.
Signs of Flandering
1. Disappearing for long periods of time without explanation.
2. Hiding their phone or computer screen when you approach.
3. Sudden changes in behavior or interests.
Effects of Flandering
Flandering can lead to trust issues, emotional turmoil, and ultimately the breakdown of a relationship. It can also have negative impacts on mental health, self-esteem, and overall well-being.
Case Studies
One study found that 45% of individuals admitted to flandering while in a committed relationship. This behavior often stems from issues such as lack of communication, boredom, or feelings of inadequacy.
Examples of Flandering
1. John has been married for ten years but recently started seeing a coworker behind his wife’s back.
2. Sarah has been in a committed relationship for five years but regularly flirts with other men at social events.
Confronting Flandering
If you suspect your partner of flandering, it is important to have an open and honest conversation. Seek couples therapy if needed to address underlying issues and work towards rebuilding trust.
