Bestow attention means: Your bestow is what you do to them. When your bestow seems so bored that they request bestow attention, you should listen and only pay attention to your bestow. Don’t give your bestow all of your attention, and don’t waste your time on a long convo. You can ask questions, be truthful or dare or just do what you like. All that is required of you is your undivided attention. (in Community Dictionary, added by Alvin Callahan)